Another Stupid Idea?

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This is a tattoo that I&#8217;ve had done a few days ago. The logo is an intertwining image of a wolf and a cat, which symbolizes loyalty and femininity, respectively. I&#8217;ve been having relationship problems for the past few years and my most recent heartbreak has taught me that for a relationship to last, you need to be loyal to your partner, without forgetting your value as a woman. Giving too much of yourself to that special someone is not healthy, especially if that person isn&#8217;t reciprocating.

From what I&#8217;ve learned, you need to love yourself more than you love your boyfriend/girlfriend because in the end, it&#8217;s still your happiness that matters. It doesn&#8217;t mean that you can go off and cheat with other guys. Do not compromise your womanhood just because you are afraid that you will lose him. If he wants to leave, so be it. It only means that he isn&#8217;t brave enough to fight for you.

This is a tattoo that I’ve had done a few days ago. The logo is an intertwining image of a wolf and a cat, which symbolizes loyalty and femininity, respectively. I’ve been having relationship problems for the past few years and my most recent heartbreak has taught me that for a relationship to last, you need to be loyal to your partner, without forgetting your value as a woman. Giving too much of yourself to that special someone is not healthy, especially if that person isn’t reciprocating.

From what I’ve learned, you need to love yourself more than you love your boyfriend/girlfriend because in the end, it’s still your happiness that matters. It doesn’t mean that you can go off and cheat with other guys. Do not compromise your womanhood just because you are afraid that you will lose him. If he wants to leave, so be it. It only means that he isn’t brave enough to fight for you.

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